One of the 1st things we look at during my Amazing Business Creation Workshops (in fact, its part of the pre-work!) is actually making time to start planning your business – sort of ‘getting ready to get ready’!As working mums we can often feel like we have very little time to do any of the things WE want to – and so often I hear women tell me they’d love to start a business ‘one day’ but they just don’t have time right now.Well, I have news for you – you will NEVER have the time to start a business (or any of the other the things you want to do) unless YOU take serious action to MAKE it!
You see, your time is like a vacuum. As soon as you free some of it up, it naturally gets filled with something else – and if YOU don’t determine what that is yourself, I’m afraid it just gets occupied by ‘stuff’. ‘Stuff’ that’s about as useful for getting you where you want to be in life as a chocolate fire guard.Think about it – your mum/friend/partner offers to watch the kids for a couple of hours. What do you do? Do you find yourself complaining to your friends that you don’t know where the time goes? Because you spent the whole time sorting laundry/washing up/picking up toys/sweeping the bits off the floor, only to have to do it all again an hour after they get back?
What if you spent that 2 hours really focusing on one particular goal that you’ve had for ages (like starting a business!)? What if you left the other ‘stuff’ until the kids had gone to bed and you knew it was going to stay ‘done’ at least until they get up again?!It’s difficult isn’t it? It’s very easy to get totally caught up in trying to be everything to everyone – trying to be a supermum – but there really does come a point where you have to make some decisions about what you really want for you and your family IN THE LONG RUN.Now, seeing as you’re reading this, I’m assuming you’ve made the decision that you would like to take steps to find a better work/life balance, and to do that by starting a business. I’m also assuming that your no. 1 priority is your family.